You may be interested in the journey of being an alpha male. There are lots of materials that tackle the transformation of a beta male to an alpha man. Some may mislead you however. For example, many guys get the wrong idea of what it means to be an alpha male, and as a result they end up trying too hard. What happens is that they consciously try to show that they are dominant and superior to other people. They force it. When you try hard at something, you are most likely to fail at it.
Women can also spot guys who try too hard. They can see it because they can see that guys are incongruent with the subconscious communication that their body is communicating. So, how can you be an authentic alpha male? You have to start out with first accepting your present condition. Accepting your fault and allowing yourself to accept it all just how it is, and be at ease. Allow yourself to relax and feel calm. You have to find out what really motivates you in life, and you have to go for it. You have to realize your lfe purpose and try to achieve it. You should not care what others think, and you should not try to convince them.
Guys who are trying too hard with being an alpha male are usually seeking approval from others and aren’t too happy with themselves. So start by accepting all your faults and finding security in yourself. Realize that you are okay just the way you are. From that point, do not act in a way like you want to please others; rather act like you want to please yourself. After doing this, will you then finally develop an alpha personality.